Making Room for Magic Relationships

Thank you all so much for showing up here every week to join the conversation!  I see that things are shifting for many of you.   Please take a moment to celebrate the energy and courage it takes to do things in a new way.  I love you!

During the past year, I've noticed how many of us are dealing with relationship issues.  Relationships are the one thing that binds all humans together.  If there is a Final Judgement, it will be based on how we navigate relationships. It's the one single thing that every human has and they are that important. 

Take a moment to consider how you navigate your relationships.

We crave relationships with people who make us feel valuable; who are kind to us; who we can trust, who listen; who understand; who make time for us; who want to be with us; who honor our effort, our intelligence, and our other best features; who bring out the best in us. 

As we make room for more of these positive, magic relationships, we can activate the Law of Attraction to help us find them. 

If we want a relationship with someone who is open and happy, we need to practice being open and happy to others.   If we want someone who is kind, we practice being kind to others.  If we want someone to listen and understand, we have to practice listening and understanding.  If we want someone to trust, then we have to practice being trustworthy ourselves.  Just keep practicing. 

Please know that you are not alone in seeking healing relationships.  I promise you that healing happens, that dark & ugly passes, that you will find your tribe. 

Breathe deeply.  Find a way to put your best foot forward.  Watch the magic flow. Your best life is now.




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Also, I'd like to invite you to join our Best Self facebook group where we can talk freely about becoming our best selves - and all the messy work that entails. In addition, I have another group, The Well Balanced Artist, for creatives of all kinds and in all stages of their creative lives, who are trying to balance their art, business and personal lives.

The Laws of Attraction & Harvest

Very simply, the Law of Attraction is this:

 You attract the things you focus on.

Life is a mixed bag, no getting around it.  There's a lot of awful stuff...but there's also a lot of unbelievably wonderful stuff.  We get to decide what to focus on.  If we focus on the crap, then that's what we are more likely to find more of, simply because that's what we're tuned in to.  

There's nothing woo-woo about this.  It's not magic.  If you want more of something in your life, you need to tune in to what you want.  Keep your eyes open for it or go looking for it.  

Want more good experiences?   Focus on the good you see.   Want more great friends?  Focus on the great people you know.   Want more miracles?   Focus on the miraculous.  

For the Law of Attraction to work, you don't have to actually do anything other than change what you pay attention to. 

A related idea is the Law of the Harvest:

You reap what you sow.

If the Law of Attraction is what you pay attention to, then the Law of the Harvest is how you act.  If you are focused on briars, you won't see the violets. Further, you can't expect violets to grow if you're actively planting briars.  

If you want to see real change in your life, you have to honestly examine your thinking and your actions and then make changes. You can't go around spreading negativity and then expect happy to pop up. Instead you need to start being hopeful and spreading that hope.  You can't gossip about your acquaintances and expect people to trust you and to have a supportive tribe.  Instead, you need to be complimentary and supportive when talking to and about others.  You can't focus on all the negativity in the world and expect to feel happy.  Instead you need to seek out and tell inspiring, loving and laughable stories.

It's not easy to always do these things, but we're not after perfection; we're after improvement.  

Every positive change, even the smallest one, will contribute to a better outcome for you.   Patient persistence will result in astounding long term gains.  

I really want to know how you're doing:   How have you seen these laws work in your life? 

  

I'd like to invite you to join our Best Self facebook group where we can talk freely about becoming our best selves - and all the messy work that entails.