Making Room for Magic Relationships

Thank you all so much for showing up here every week to join the conversation!  I see that things are shifting for many of you.   Please take a moment to celebrate the energy and courage it takes to do things in a new way.  I love you!

During the past year, I've noticed how many of us are dealing with relationship issues.  Relationships are the one thing that binds all humans together.  If there is a Final Judgement, it will be based on how we navigate relationships. It's the one single thing that every human has and they are that important. 

Take a moment to consider how you navigate your relationships.

We crave relationships with people who make us feel valuable; who are kind to us; who we can trust, who listen; who understand; who make time for us; who want to be with us; who honor our effort, our intelligence, and our other best features; who bring out the best in us. 

As we make room for more of these positive, magic relationships, we can activate the Law of Attraction to help us find them. 

If we want a relationship with someone who is open and happy, we need to practice being open and happy to others.   If we want someone who is kind, we practice being kind to others.  If we want someone to listen and understand, we have to practice listening and understanding.  If we want someone to trust, then we have to practice being trustworthy ourselves.  Just keep practicing. 

Please know that you are not alone in seeking healing relationships.  I promise you that healing happens, that dark & ugly passes, that you will find your tribe. 

Breathe deeply.  Find a way to put your best foot forward.  Watch the magic flow. Your best life is now.




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Also, I'd like to invite you to join our Best Self facebook group where we can talk freely about becoming our best selves - and all the messy work that entails. In addition, I have another group, The Well Balanced Artist, for creatives of all kinds and in all stages of their creative lives, who are trying to balance their art, business and personal lives.

Relationships - Letting Go

This month we're talking about Letting Go.   If you're like me, once you get your fingers in something it's really, really hard to let go.  It comes from a Scarcity Mindset. [I'm working on it.] This is true of Stuff, of Ideas, of Habits and of Relationships.

Relationships.  We have to let go of [release!] relationships that no longer serve us.  These are the relationships with crazymakers, manipulators, two-faced friends & family members, takers, back-stabbers, liars, abusers.  You know who they are.

I think one of the reasons it's hard for me to let go is that I feel pretty unattractive.  So if someone pays the least bit of attention to me, I don't want to let that go because I'm certain no one will ever like me again.   One crappy friend is better than no friends at all, right?  What is totally ridiculous about that idea is that I have a bunch of fabulous friends!   People who know me and love me and who are the best friends ever.  I don't need to keep crappy people around.  You don't either. 

Another reason it's hard for me to let go is that I don't like dramatic confrontations.  But here's the thing - and it's a big thing:  Letting go does not require a confrontation at all.   It just requires Letting Go.  As in, 'Stop hanging onto this.  Open your hand [head & heart] and let it goooooo.'   No phone calls, no checking in, no drive bys, no answering emails, no visits, no responses, no reactions, no facebook, no little favors, no contact.   Delete them, block them, forget them.  Then go out with your true friends and have a great time. 

Some relationships are ugly and sticky.  I don't want to minimize the work it might take to get free of them.  If you're dealing with someone like that, I encourage you with all my heart to get some help dealing with it.  You deserve the support from someone local who knows what they're doing and who can be with you the whole way.   Know that we are here, with you, cheering you on. 

So.   What relationships are keeping you from living your Best Life Now?   Which ones can you begin to let go of today?   If you've got a good story of how you let go of one of these, please share it in the comments. 




I'd like to invite you to join our Best Self facebook group where we can talk freely about becoming our best selves - and all the messy work that entails.  In addition, I have another group, The Well Balanced Artist, for creatives of all kinds and in all stages of their creative lives, who are trying to balance their art, business and personal lives.